i am because we are (ubuntu)

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I am who I am today because other people have believed in me before I believed in myself.

Beyond my family and friends, I'm especially grateful to these folks for seeing something in me and pushing me to become more.

Thank you. Your love and support live on through me.

  • Terry Driskillmiddle school English teacher who encouraged me to apply to Thacher (previously wasn't even on my radar)
  • Alice Meyerhigh school dorm head and psychology teacher
  • Kurt Meyerhigh school advisor for senior project (sonoluminescence), faculty sponsor for my performance magic project, and my math & cs teacher
  • Pierre Yoohigh school chemistry teacher who took me under his wing to perform crazy science experiments after class - things that would be banned now ;)
  • Josef Mittlemannprofessor of Entrepreneurship who always encouraged me to do good and do well in the world.
  • Arkady Belozovskysign langauge professor from Ukraine who saw something special in me
  • Nick Rintalanearly mentor at my first job
  • Eric Jurasinskione of the best project leads I've worked with; learned a ton from him handling difficult clients
  • Mike Schaefferprofessional mentor who gave me opportunities and challenged me to step up beyond my years
  • Meghan Laffeybest manager I've had in my career, hands down; always emphasized that people come first
  • Sumit Chawlasenior director from the imaging team who was an example of a great leader to me
  • Romulo MeloBJJ professor from white to purple, took me to Brazil, believed in me from the beginning
  • Paul Jeunesaw something in me early; AFF instructor, mentor, coach, friend. Believed in me so I began to believe in myself.
  • Alex Cashmanalso AFF instructor, brought me on jumps "above my weight class" to push me
  • Dusty Hanksworld-class skydiving coach who taught me to fly head down, transition, and carve in a single weekend
  • Ben & Devin Roanecoached me to fly with big smiles on their faces
  • Alana Fulvio-Bigleyinvited me to an elite invite-only annual event with some of the best skydivers on the planet
  • Donagene Jonessaid yes to me joining that event!
  • MX, MKbelieved in my flying abilities enough to put me in the lead jumper slot on the world record jumps
  • Debbie Cohenencouraged and inspired me to explore professional coaching; illuminated the path to pursue my calling
  • Susan Carlisleworld-class coach who turned my world upside down in the best way possible; saw into my soul with love
  • Anne Grete Mazziottaworld-class coach who operates on multiple planes and sees the invisible
  • Dan Spinnermet at a nonduality breakout session @ Wisdom 2.0 and organically became my mentor of many years; taught me to listen and broadcast internally on a deeper level than ever before; also "language is the echo of energy already exchanged"
  • Steve Hardison
  • Ankush Jain
  • Townsend Wardlaw
  • Jonah Cohenmy current BJJ coach and friend who fans the flames of my potential

influences

Beyond the personal mentors above, these are the thinkers, writers, and teachers whose work has shaped my own.

Esther Perel, Brené Brown, Simon Sinek, Adam Grant, Patrick Lencioni, Tim Ferriss, Alex Hormozi, Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj, Rumi, Sam Harris, Henry Shukman, Adyashanti, Elena Bower